instructions: please see this post for information on how to use these questions!

SECTION ONE
  • What is your most treasured memory?
  • What is your most terrible memory?
  • If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
  • How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's?
  • How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
  • Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
  • Share a personal problem and ask for advice.
  • If you could choose the sex and physical appearance of your soon-to-be-born child, would you do it?
  • Would you be willing to have horrible nightmares for a year if you would be rewarded with extraordinary wealth?
  • While traveling, your partner spends a night with a stranger. Given that they will never meet again, would you want them to tell you?
  • Which three words describe you best?
  • What do you think are your best and worst physical and mental traits?
  • What did you want to be when you grew up? What are you now?
  • What is the best advice you've ever received?
  • What is the worst present you've ever received?
  • Pick one: true love or money.
  • What is your favorite song, book, and movie?
  • If you were going to become a close friend with someone, what would be important for him or her to know?
  • What is your most embarrassing moment?
  • Would you like to be famous? In what way?
  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

SECTION TWO
  • What is your greatest fear?
  • What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
  • What is the trait you most deplore in others?
  • Which living person do you most admire?
  • What is your greatest extravagance?
  • What is your current state of mind?
  • What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
  • On what occasion do you lie?
  • What do you most dislike about your appearance?
  • Which living person do you most despise?
  • What is the quality you most like in a man?
  • What is the quality you most like in a woman?
  • Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
  • What or who is the greatest love of your life?
  • When and where were you happiest?
  • Which talent would you most like to have?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • What do you consider your greatest achievement?
  • If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?
  • Where would you most like to live?

SECTION THREE
  • What is your most treasured possession?
  • What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
  • What is your favorite occupation?
  • What is your most marked characteristic?
  • What do you most value in your friends?
  • Who are your favorite writers?
  • Who is your hero of fiction?
  • Which historical figure do you most identify with?
  • Who are your heroes in real life?
  • What are your favorite names?
  • What is it that you most dislike?
  • What is your greatest regret?
  • How would you like to die?
  • What is your motto?
  • What is your favorite word?
  • What is your least favorite word?
  • What turns you on creatively, spiritually or emotionally?
  • What turns you off?
  • What is your favorite curse word?
  • What sound or noise do you love?
  • What sound or noise do you hate?

SECTION FOUR
  • What profession other than your own would you like to attempt?
  • What profession would you not like to do?
  • If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?
  • Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
  • Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
  • What would constitute a perfect day for you?
  • When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
  • Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
  • Name three things you and your partner or best friend appear to have in common.
  • For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
  • If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
  • If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?
  • If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
  • Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
  • What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
  • What do you value most in a friendship?
  • What does friendship mean to you?
  • What roles do love and affection play in your life?
  • Complete this sentence "I wish I had someone with whom I could share..."
  • When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
  • What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
  • If you were to die suddenly, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?
  • Your house catches fire. If loved ones and pets are safe, which one item do you go back in for?

SECTION FIVE

  • What's one thing that's happened to you that has made you a stronger person?
  • What's one thing that's happened to you in your life that made you feel weak?
  • Where is one place you feel most like yourself?
  • Where is your favorite place to escape to?
  • Who do you think has had the largest influence on the person you are today?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
  • If you had one day left to live, what would you do first?
  • What decade do you feel you most belong in?
  • Who are you closest to in your family? Why?
  • Who is the one person in this world that knows you best?
  • What is your favorite quality about your best friend?
  • When you were younger what did you think you were going to be when you grew up?
  • If you could identify with one fictional character (from a book, show, or movie) who would it be?
  • Do you easily accept compliments? Or do you hate compliments?
  • Is your favorite attribute about yourself physical or non-physical?
  • What is your favorite physical attribute about yourself?
  • What is your favorite non-physical attribute about yourself?
  • Do you believe in love at first sight?
  • Do you believe in soul mates?
  • How seriously do you take horoscopes?

SECTION SIX

  • Have you ever been in love? How many times?
  • What makes you fall in love with someone?
  • What does vulnerability mean to you? What has the ability to make you vulnerable?
  • What's one thing you're scared to ask a man/woman, but really want to?
  • If you were to switch genders for a day, what gender identity would you pick and what would be the first thing you do?
  • What do you find most attractive about each sex?
  • What's one thing you'd love to learn more about?
  • What is something you've never done that you've always wanted to do? Why haven't you done it yet?
  • If money didn't matter, what would your dream job be?
  • If you had off from work today, what would you do?
  • What was the last thing that made you cry?
  • What was the last thing that made you laugh?
  • What is your favorite memory?
  • What's the last thing that REALLY embarrassed you?
  • What is your biggest fear?
  • Do you have any regrets? What's your biggest one?
  • Have you ever broken a law? If you haven't what is one law you'd love to break?
  • What is the craziest thing you've ever done?
  • Would you have a conversation with a stranger?

SECTION SEVEN

  • Would you tell a stranger they have toilet paper on their shoe/their dress tucked in their underwear/anything embarrassing in public?
  • What's your favorite joke?
  • Are you a dog person or a cat person?
  • If you could be any animal, what animal would you be?
  • What's one show, movie, or book, you’re embarrassed to admit you enjoy?
  • How do you think your parents would describe you as a child?
  • If you could go back to any age or time of your life, what age or time would it be?
  • What's something you believe in that not everyone else does?
  • What's one thing you would say that makes you unique from other people?
  • What is one thing you feel your life is missing?
  • morning or night owl?
  • last movie you watched? your reaction to this movie?
  • what's under your bed?
  • what's your addiction in life?
  • do you shower facing the shower head or facing away from the shower head?
  • favorite tv show when you were a kid? favorite ep/moment from the tv show that you can remember?
  • if you could spend one day in someone else's shoes, who would it be and why?
  • which celebrity gets on your nerves the most and why?
  • if you were to bury a time capsul, what would you put in it?
  • what's the most exotic place you've gotten intimate?
  • do you have any unique or strong phobias? if yes, what are they? if no, make up a phobia that you do have.
  • if you could be any disney villian, who would it be and why?
  • how old were you when you had your first kiss and what did you think of it?
  • if you could bring back any toy from your childhood, what would it be?
  • if you knew today was the last day of your life, how would you spend it?
  • if you could relive one day of your life so far, what would it be?
  • if your life was a novel, what would the title be?

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